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Are You Really Supposed to Fall on Your Sword for Your Family?
Even if it means bleeding to death?
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What Exactly IS "Overeating?"
And why does no one notice this about the new miracle weight loss drugs?
Nov 30, 2025
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"How Can She DO That?"
What every betrayed wife wonders about the mistress.
Nov 29, 2025
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The Absolute Most Damning, Ugliest Trait a Conservative Can Have
Why do people DO this?
Nov 12, 2025
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"Your Affair Is Nothing But Brain Chemicals"
This advice is the new fashion. But a human being is not a test tube.
Nov 11, 2025
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A Total Disconnect: The Sexless Marriage vs. The Extramarital Affair
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Ten Years After the Affair, What Have I Learned?
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Living in a Sexless Marriage?
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My Best Advice to Anyone Having an Affair with a Married Person
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Other People Cannot Magically Save Your Writing Career
And screaming at them isn't appropriate.
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My Best Advice to Anyone Having an Affair with a Married Person
Wisdom you won't find anywhere else.
Nov 7, 2025
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To Give Up on Your Affair Partner, You Need These Two Things
And the longer it takes you to find them, the longer you will pine.
Oct 12, 2025
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Connecting the Dots of Your Love Map
Exorcise the ghost.
Aug 31, 2025
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When Does the Married Cheater Actually Leave Their Spouse?
These cases are few and far between. It's slim pickings out there, folks.
Aug 27, 2025
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Ten Years After the Affair, What Have I Learned?
Ten years of wisdom for fifteen minutes of your time.
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Here's What's Going On When She Says No to Sex
What a sad mismatch between husband and wife.
Aug 14, 2025
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The Codependent Cheater
Do we really know anything about him?
Aug 3, 2025
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Book Review: Runaway Husbands by Vikki Stark
It may be a comforting read, but it is not a complete one.
Jul 23, 2025
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